This was an insightful read … exploring the different ways that grief effects us. The story is mostly about Anne, and how she deals with her husband Graham’s sudden death, especially after she discovers he was unfaithful in their marriage. Secondary character’s like Graham’s first wife Freida, and his two children Lucas and Sarah make small appearances as the author Sue Miller gives us a varied approach to grief and how our life experiences shape us. It was the subtle reflections that resonated with me … how Lucas and Sarah both craved each other’s lives … how our relationships with our parents shape us and how somehow mother’s always seem to cope the blame while father’s are held in high esteem. It made me question my own parenting style and my worry that even though I try my best with my children, I’m still going to somehow inevitably screw them up. And above all it was about love and how micro moments, our relationships have the ability to change the course of our lives forever. A fight with our husbands, a momentary outburst of anger towards our children, a small misstep … beautifully written and explored. Well done, Sue Miller.
Marisa Jones Author 